What is the difference between the guy who constantly disappoints you on purpose and the guy who constantly disappoints you unintentionally?
Ladies – what is going on that you are putting up with being constantly disappointed? It does not matter if he meant to or not – if he’s incapable of loving you the way you desire to be loved, then it DOES NOT MATTER if he’s doing it intentionally or unintentionally. Stop categorizing.
You being constantly disappointed is a dealbreaker. End of story.
I have a lot of women ask me, “How many chances should I give him?”
I’ve come up with three. Three is enough times to feel like you gave him a chance, and not so many that you are a doormat who can’t get the message.
Be busy. Don’t keep checking your phone and don’t analyze what he’s thinking. That’s not your business and the colossal amount of time and energy you are giving to whether he is playing mind games could be spent making you wiser, happier, smarter, and more secure in yourself.
I swear, if I could get a refund of the time my girlfriends and I wasted on what was going on in men’s minds while waiting for them to treat us better we could have cured cancer and ended poverty. Enough about them and what they are doing and what they really think.
Take back the night! Just go on with your valuable life, and if he wants to call he will, and if you want to respond you will.
I love you!! xo
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